Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change Zibby Media Zibby Owens
Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change Zibby Media Zibby Owens
Published:
    March 11, 2025
['{"currentVariantId":"48401212539196","currentType":"single_line_text_field","currentKey":"publish_date_variant","currentProps":{"badgeWidth":28,"badgeHeight":28,"showDate":true,"dateFormat":"%m-%d-%Y","showTime":true,"timeFormat":"%I:%M %p","showTimezone":true,"showUnit":true,"showMaxScale":true,"trueValText":"TRUE","falseValText":"FALSE","linkToUrl":true,"linkText":null}}',[{"description_variant":{"type":"root","children":[{"type":"paragraph","children":[{"type":"text","value":"Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.","bold":true},{"type":"text","value":"\n\nIn recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?\n\nResearch shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels."}]}]},"dimensions_variant":"228.6 X 152.4 X 25.4 mm","ean_upc_variant":"9781668012543","language_variant":"English","publish_date_variant":"March 11, 2025","type_variant":"Hardback","_of_pages_variant":288},{"id":50697015230780,"title":"Hardcover","option1":"Hardcover","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"9781668012543","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":true,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change - Hardcover","public_title":"Hardcover","options":["Hardcover"],"price":2899,"weight":454,"compare_at_price":null,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"9781668012543","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},], ]
Pages:
    288
['{"currentVariantId":"48401212539196","currentType":"number_integer","currentKey":"_of_pages_variant","currentProps":{"badgeWidth":28,"badgeHeight":28,"showDate":true,"dateFormat":"%m-%d-%Y","showTime":true,"timeFormat":"%I:%M %p","showTimezone":true,"showUnit":true,"showMaxScale":true,"trueValText":"TRUE","falseValText":"FALSE","linkToUrl":true,"linkText":null}}',[{"description_variant":{"type":"root","children":[{"type":"paragraph","children":[{"type":"text","value":"Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.","bold":true},{"type":"text","value":"\n\nIn recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?\n\nResearch shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels."}]}]},"dimensions_variant":"228.6 X 152.4 X 25.4 mm","ean_upc_variant":"9781668012543","language_variant":"English","publish_date_variant":"March 11, 2025","type_variant":"Hardback","_of_pages_variant":288},{"id":50697015230780,"title":"Hardcover","option1":"Hardcover","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"9781668012543","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":true,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change - Hardcover","public_title":"Hardcover","options":["Hardcover"],"price":2899,"weight":454,"compare_at_price":null,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"9781668012543","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},], ]
Dimensions:
    228.6 X 152.4 X 25.4 mm
['{"currentVariantId":"48401212539196","currentType":"single_line_text_field","currentKey":"dimensions_variant","currentProps":{"badgeWidth":28,"badgeHeight":28,"showDate":true,"dateFormat":"%m-%d-%Y","showTime":true,"timeFormat":"%I:%M %p","showTimezone":true,"showUnit":true,"showMaxScale":true,"trueValText":"TRUE","falseValText":"FALSE","linkToUrl":true,"linkText":null}}',[{"description_variant":{"type":"root","children":[{"type":"paragraph","children":[{"type":"text","value":"Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.","bold":true},{"type":"text","value":"\n\nIn recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?\n\nResearch shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels."}]}]},"dimensions_variant":"228.6 X 152.4 X 25.4 mm","ean_upc_variant":"9781668012543","language_variant":"English","publish_date_variant":"March 11, 2025","type_variant":"Hardback","_of_pages_variant":288},{"id":50697015230780,"title":"Hardcover","option1":"Hardcover","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"9781668012543","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":true,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change - Hardcover","public_title":"Hardcover","options":["Hardcover"],"price":2899,"weight":454,"compare_at_price":null,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"9781668012543","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},], ]
Language:
    English
['{"currentVariantId":"48401212539196","currentType":"single_line_text_field","currentKey":"language_variant","currentProps":{"badgeWidth":28,"badgeHeight":28,"showDate":true,"dateFormat":"%m-%d-%Y","showTime":true,"timeFormat":"%I:%M %p","showTimezone":true,"showUnit":true,"showMaxScale":true,"trueValText":"TRUE","falseValText":"FALSE","linkToUrl":true,"linkText":null}}',[{"description_variant":{"type":"root","children":[{"type":"paragraph","children":[{"type":"text","value":"Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.","bold":true},{"type":"text","value":"\n\nIn recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?\n\nResearch shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels."}]}]},"dimensions_variant":"228.6 X 152.4 X 25.4 mm","ean_upc_variant":"9781668012543","language_variant":"English","publish_date_variant":"March 11, 2025","type_variant":"Hardback","_of_pages_variant":288},{"id":50697015230780,"title":"Hardcover","option1":"Hardcover","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"9781668012543","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":true,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change - Hardcover","public_title":"Hardcover","options":["Hardcover"],"price":2899,"weight":454,"compare_at_price":null,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"9781668012543","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},], ]
Format:
    Hardback
['{"currentVariantId":"48401212539196","currentType":"single_line_text_field","currentKey":"type_variant","currentProps":{"badgeWidth":28,"badgeHeight":28,"showDate":true,"dateFormat":"%m-%d-%Y","showTime":true,"timeFormat":"%I:%M %p","showTimezone":true,"showUnit":true,"showMaxScale":true,"trueValText":"TRUE","falseValText":"FALSE","linkToUrl":true,"linkText":null}}',[{"description_variant":{"type":"root","children":[{"type":"paragraph","children":[{"type":"text","value":"Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.","bold":true},{"type":"text","value":"\n\nIn recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?\n\nResearch shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels."}]}]},"dimensions_variant":"228.6 X 152.4 X 25.4 mm","ean_upc_variant":"9781668012543","language_variant":"English","publish_date_variant":"March 11, 2025","type_variant":"Hardback","_of_pages_variant":288},{"id":50697015230780,"title":"Hardcover","option1":"Hardcover","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"9781668012543","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":true,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change - Hardcover","public_title":"Hardcover","options":["Hardcover"],"price":2899,"weight":454,"compare_at_price":null,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"9781668012543","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},], ]
EAN / UPC:
    9781668012543
['{"currentVariantId":"48401212539196","currentType":"single_line_text_field","currentKey":"ean_upc_variant","currentProps":{"badgeWidth":28,"badgeHeight":28,"showDate":true,"dateFormat":"%m-%d-%Y","showTime":true,"timeFormat":"%I:%M %p","showTimezone":true,"showUnit":true,"showMaxScale":true,"trueValText":"TRUE","falseValText":"FALSE","linkToUrl":true,"linkText":null}}',[{"description_variant":{"type":"root","children":[{"type":"paragraph","children":[{"type":"text","value":"Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.","bold":true},{"type":"text","value":"\n\nIn recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?\n\nResearch shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels."}]}]},"dimensions_variant":"228.6 X 152.4 X 25.4 mm","ean_upc_variant":"9781668012543","language_variant":"English","publish_date_variant":"March 11, 2025","type_variant":"Hardback","_of_pages_variant":288},{"id":50697015230780,"title":"Hardcover","option1":"Hardcover","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"9781668012543","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":true,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change - Hardcover","public_title":"Hardcover","options":["Hardcover"],"price":2899,"weight":454,"compare_at_price":null,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"9781668012543","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},], ]

Zibby Media / Book

Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change

by Olga Khazan
$28.99
Coming
    March 11, 2025

Free gift with purchase: Order the deluxe signed limited edition hardcover and receive a letterpress print of one of the poems! While supplies last.

Description
Description

    Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.

    In recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?

    Research shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels.

['{"currentVariantId":"48401212539196","currentType":"rich_text_field","currentKey":"description_variant","currentProps":{"badgeWidth":28,"badgeHeight":28,"showDate":true,"dateFormat":"%m-%d-%Y","showTime":true,"timeFormat":"%I:%M %p","showTimezone":true,"showUnit":true,"showMaxScale":true,"trueValText":"TRUE","falseValText":"FALSE","linkToUrl":true,"linkText":null}}',[{"description_variant":{"type":"root","children":[{"type":"paragraph","children":[{"type":"text","value":"Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.","bold":true},{"type":"text","value":"\n\nIn recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?\n\nResearch shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels."}]}]},"dimensions_variant":"228.6 X 152.4 X 25.4 mm","ean_upc_variant":"9781668012543","language_variant":"English","publish_date_variant":"March 11, 2025","type_variant":"Hardback","_of_pages_variant":288},{"id":50697015230780,"title":"Hardcover","option1":"Hardcover","option2":null,"option3":null,"sku":"9781668012543","requires_shipping":true,"taxable":true,"featured_image":null,"available":true,"name":"Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change - Hardcover","public_title":"Hardcover","options":["Hardcover"],"price":2899,"weight":454,"compare_at_price":null,"inventory_management":null,"barcode":"9781668012543","requires_selling_plan":false,"selling_plan_allocations":[]},], ]

Is it really possible to change your entire personality in a year? An award-winning journalist experiments with her own personality to find out—and reveals the science behind lasting change.

In recent years, Olga Khazan had been spiraling toward an existential crisis. Though she treasured her loving relationship and her dream job, her neurotic personality often left her snatching dissatisfaction from the jaws of happiness. While her overachieving had always been a professional asset, Olga lately felt like her brittle disposition could shatter under the weight of just one more thing—but could she really change her entire personality?

Research shows that you can alter your personality traits by behaving in ways that align with the kind of person you’d like to be—a process that can make you happier, healthier, and more successful. In Me, But Better, Olga embarks on an experiment to see whether it’s possible to go from dwelling in dread to “radiating joy.” For one year, Olga reluctantly clicked “yes” on a bucket list of new experiences—from meditation to improv to sailing—that forced her to at least act happy. With a skeptic’s eye, Olga brings you on her journey through the science of personality, presenting evidence-backed techniques to help you change your mind for the better. Sharply witty and deeply fascinating, Me, But Better offers a probing inquiry into what it means to live a fulfilling life, and how you can keep diving into change, no matter how uncomfortable it feels.

About The Author

Olga Khazan

Olga Khazan is a staff writer for The Atlantic and the author of Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change. Her first book, Weird: The Power of Being an Outsider in an Insider World, came out in 2020. She has also written for The New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, The Washington Post, Forbes, and other publications. She is a two-time recipient of the International Reporting Project’s Journalism Fellowship and winner of the 2017 National Headliner Awards for Magazine Online Writing.

We think you’ll like these too

Jane Costello

Forty Love $17.99

Annabelle Gurwitch

The End of My Life is Killing Me $17.99

Alexandra Potter

So, I Met This Guy $17.99

Emma Grey

Start at the End $17.99